Monday, March 20, 2006

Remember The Smoking Gun and its exposé of James Frey's book, A Million Little Pieces as being A Million Little Lies? Book number two from Random House is about to be exposed and it's nothing to do with the Da Vinci Code skirmish in the High Courts in London - watch this space.


In late 2004 I was approached by a Dupuyer, Montana resident, Mrs Sandy Gregory-Parocai for help with an investigation into a book, Sickened, written by her daughter, Julie Gregory, published world-wide by Random House. The book makes serious allegations against Mrs Gregory-Parocai of perpetrating a very dangerous form of child abuse – Munchausen’s Syndrome by Proxy – on Julie Gregory during her childhood. Effectively the allegations were that Mrs Gregory invented illnesses in her daughter so that unnecessary, invasive investigations would be undertaken by paediatric cardiac specialists, and furthermore she is alleged to be continuing this general form of abuse against two adopted children whom Mrs Gregory now cares for.

Mrs Gregory denies all the allegations.

She approached me I believe because, as a freelance investigative journalist specializing in investigations into false allegations of MSBP I am known internationally. This daughter-against-mother allegation is thought to be unique.

It seemed to me for a good year or so that there was not much that could be done pro-actively on Mrs Gregory’s behalf, except maintain a watching brief, because of the limited scope for legal action in the United States (Mrs Gregory would have had to fund this up-front, she would have to prove her innocence, and there was a question of time-limitation – the situation is slightly different in the UK – the publishers would have to prove the truth of what was alleged).

Then, in January 2006, another book published by Random House, A Million Little Pieces, written by James Frey, was exposed by TheSmokingGun.com as containing false claims. Oprah Winfrey joined in condemning the book. Random House initially stood by their author (they said publicly this is official policy) then they publicly admitted they could no longer do this.

So I starting cross-checking claims in Sickened against documents and photographs sent earlier by Mrs Gregory-Parocai. I asked public authorities in the US to send me documents (for example SSD records, death certificates etc.). Others sent me newspaper cuttings, photographs of grave-stones etc. I undertook research with Ancestry.com. This way I was able to begin to disprove significant damaging claims in the book. This continues. My early findings were sent to Random House, who are still looking into them so far as I can tell.

At least Random House responded to me about the proved false claims in the book – Julie Gregory never has. She still keeps a website running which repeats many of the false allegations in the book. Shortly after the James Frey episode on Oprah Winfrey’s show, perhaps unsurprisingly, Julie Gregory abandoned a petition she was promoting which she hoped would get herself and her campaign against her mother on nationwide television. Julie’s mother was very willing to appear, as were the adopted children.

Sandy Gregory-Parocai was also willing to appear on the Dr Phil show when this was mooted on Julie Gregory’s own website, but Julie Gregory refused.

Mrs Gregory has provided me with every document and photograph needed to check claims in the book, where she is able to provide them.

Of course she does not have all the evidence yet that she needs to challenge the medicalised abuse allegations. Her daughter’s medical records need to be independently investigated, not just the selected few presented in the book. I had the latter checked and there really was legitimate cause for concern about Julie’s condition; no paediatrician would wisely have ignored this and no cardiac specialist would have undertaken tests without good reason.

A full account of my investigation would need a book the size of Sickened to relate, and this may well happen. Meanwhile the sustained allegations and campaign written about in Sickened have had a seriously damaging effect on the Gregory-Parocai family. Montana authorities removed the two adopted children but returned them after their own investigation.

Where the allegations can be checked they have been proved false. This must surely raise concerns about the truthfulness of other allegations in the book. These need investigating – Mrs Gregory-Parocai says she wants this to happen. Will her daughter and the publishers Random House agree to this and meanwhile acknowledge there are proved fabricated claims in Sickened?

27 comments:

Brian Morgan said...

In late 2004 I was approached by a Dupuyer, Montana resident, Mrs Sandy Gregory-Parocai for help with an investigation into a book, Sickened, written by her daughter, Julie Gregory, published world-wide by Random House. The book makes serious allegations against Mrs Gregory-Parocai of perpetrating a very dangerous form of child abuse – Munchausen’s Syndrome by Proxy – on Julie Gregory during her childhood. Effectively the allegations were that Mrs Gregory invented illnesses in her daughter so that unnecessary, invasive investigations would be undertaken by paediatric cardiac specialists, and furthermore she is alleged to be continuing this general form of abuse against two adopted children whom Mrs Gregory now cares for.

Mrs Gregory denies all the allegations.

She approached me I believe because, as a freelance investigative journalist specializing in investigations into false allegations of MSBP I am known internationally. This daughter-against-mother allegation is thought to be unique.

It seemed to me for a good year or so that there was not much that could be done pro-actively on Mrs Gregory’s behalf, except maintain a watching brief, because of the limited scope for legal action in the United States (Mrs Gregory would have had to fund this up-front, she would have to prove her innocence, and there was a question of time-limitation – the situation is slightly different in the UK – the publishers would have to prove the truth of what was alleged).

Then, in January 2006, another book published by Random House, A Million Little Pieces, written by James Frey, was exposed by TheSmokingGun.com as containing false claims. Oprah Winfrey joined in condemning the book. Random House initially stood by their author (they said publicly this is official policy) then they publicly admitted they could no longer do this.

So I starting cross-checking claims in Sickened against documents and photographs sent earlier by Mrs Gregory-Parocai. I asked public authorities in the US to send me documents (for example SSD records, death certificates etc.). Others sent me newspaper cuttings, photographs of grave-stones etc. I undertook research with Ancestry.com. This way I was able to begin to disprove significant damaging claims in the book. This continues. My early findings were sent to Random House, who are still looking into them so far as I can tell.

At least Random House responded to me about the proved false claims in the book – Julie Gregory never has. She stills keeps a website running which repeats many of the false allegations in the book. Shortly after the James Frey episode on Oprah Winfrey’s show, perhaps unsurprisingly, Julie Gregory abandoned a petition she was promoting which she hoped would get herself and her campaign against her mother on nationwide television. Julie’s mother was very willing to appear, as were the adopted children.

Sandy Gregory-Parocai was also willing to appear on the Dr Phil show when this was mooted on Julie Gregory’s own website, but Julie Gregory refused.

Mrs Gregory has provided me with every document and photograph needed to check claims in the book, where she is able to provide them.

Of course she does not have all the evidence yet that she needs to challenge the medicalised abuse allegations. Her daughter’s medical records need to be independently investigated, not just the selected few presented in the book. I had the latter checked and there really was legitimate cause for concern about Julie’s condition; no paediatrician would wisely have ignored this and no cardiac specialist would have undertaken tests without good reason.

A full account of my investigation would need a book the size of Sickened to relate, and this may well happen. Meanwhile the sustained allegations and campaign written about in Sickened have had a seriously damaging effect on the Gregory-Parocai family. Montana authorities removed the two adopted children but returned them after their own investigation.

Where the allegations can be checked they have been proved false. This must surely raise concerns about the truthfulness of other allegations in the book. These need investigating – Mrs Gregory-Parocai says she wants this to happen. Will her daughter and the publishers Random House agree to this and meanwhile acknowledge there are proved fabricated claims in Sickened?

Unknown said...

I have lived in the areas written about in the book by Julie Gregory-Parocai (central Ohio) all my life and some of her book does not ring true to me.

Unknown said...

I have lived in the areas written about in the book by Julie Gregory-Parocai (central Ohio) all my life and some of her book does not ring true to me.

Unknown said...

My uncle went to school with Ms. Gregory. We live not even ten minutes from her childhood home. The details of places and happenings at school all ring true.

Brian Morgan said...

Time has flown, nine years have gone by and I confess I had taken my eye off this Smoking Bun. But it's still smouldering. In 2011 Random House published a revised version of Sickened for the UK market, and I only now find out. I can report that some of the content of the first edition has been removed. I'm working my way through a Kindle edition that I have just bought. I can see immediately that much of the really abusive content about family members has gone. With the help of Mrs Sandy Gregory-Parocai and official sources in the US, original documents, newspaper articles, various certificates, cemetery photographs - I passed proof of inaccuracies to the publishers. My concerns were dismissed, but some action does appear to have been taken. My investigation with the help of Mrs Parocai, with no assistance from either the author or the publisher, was only partial. There is more to be done and I will be getting back on the task.

ModelT said...

Seriously???....she's crazy and crazy people are great at lying. She's got you where she wants you.

ModelT said...

Seriously???....she's crazy and crazy people are great at lying. She's got you where she wants you.

Unknown said...

What are these proven fabrications you speak of? I'd expect specific details for this to be believable. Sorry. This woman is a master manipulator. She would say anything to make herself out to be a victim.

Anonymous said...

Brian Morgan, are you really trying to accuse the victim of lying? NONE would admit that they have commited such crime. Don't you understand that such disgusting parents exist and they are ready to do anything to manipulate anyone in their favor? Abused children are refused help because of idiots like you, you should be ashamed of yourself for even starting this investigation but especially because you posted such a fake post without ANY details that would prove that Julie is lying. Have you ever thought about the fact that a child would never write such a book about parents who don't deserve it? If she had good and loving parents she would have never published such a book about them.

Claire Moore said...

I am doing a story on Ms. Julie Gregory and her allegation of abused by her mother. I haven't found any medical records, nor police reports. I have found that Ms. Julie Gregory has a child, she lives in Columbus and is going through a legal battle with her ex boy friend Monte Patton. Through legal papers Mr.Patton is claiming abuse from Ms. Gregory. Her daughter has seeing numberous doctors in Children's hospital to doctors through out Columbus, Ohio. I see a pattern with the abuse from her book to the abuse Mr. Patton is claiming. My name is Claire Moore, I am looking for any imformation about Ms. Julie Gregory or Monte Patton to see if these stories match up or any imformation about the truth behinds these crazy stories from sickened. Please feel free to email me at Airmoore45@gmail.com. Thank you, for imformation .

Fled The Undertow said...

I have a mother with Borderline personality disorder and her behavior is very similar to Julie's account of her crazy mother. I believe her one hundred percent. If I wrote a book about being raised by a maniac with bpd, I'd fully expect my maniac mother to launch a campaign trying to discredit me, too.

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Rob70 said...

"I've known thie family for a long time. Did you do your story already? If not, i may have some stuff for you.

rob70johnson@gmail.com



Unknown said...

Did your uncle have any memories of her that fit into the picture ?

Unknown said...

Maybe she's crazy. Maybe she's not. It is a compelling story people want to believe, but there really is no proof in the book.

Unknown said...

I am very interested to know what you found. I read the book, wanted to believe it, but there is no proof. For instance, has anyone verified she did attend Sheffield Univ? Has anyone seen papers to prove her mom had foster kids removed & lost license? Any documentation that there was a fire at that address? Thanks for any info.

Unknown said...

Did you do the story, Claire? Interested to read.

Brian Morgan said...

It's difficult to see the chronology here because there are no dates on the comments - just times. If anyone wants to contact me directly here's my email address - brianmorgan@ntlworld.com - I'm saying nothing publicly at the moment. There has to be documentary evidence for claims. That's the way investigative journalism works and where I have it I ask for comments. Claims in the book were removed when I sent my evidence to the publishers.

Claire Moore said...

Fled The Undertow, Do you know Ms. Gregory? 100% is a lot, I mean unless I am there and I see it with my own eyes. I think you need to look at the evidence. Also, you need to know more than the book, there's so much that isn't true. There are statements which are chronically correct. Ms.Gregory not the person you think she is, she is doing this to her own daughter!! She is mentally sick, she needs help. This is a woman who claims she is all about animals and children, but what help has she seemed after the trauma she has experiences. Going on T.V. shows isn't helping, therapy is really needed.

Kimberley said...

Written on 7/26/2017 My husband is a victim of Munchausen by Proxy. Unfortunately, his sympathy towards his mother's manipulative behavior allowed this illness to follow him through adulthood. It was only recently that he was able to cut ties with his entire family and recognize the lifetime of psychological damage the ensued from the MBPS experience. I have contacted Ms. Gregory previously and asked her for some simple advice on where we could report my mother-in-law's behavior to. A simple 'DHS' would have sufficed. However, Ms. Gregory replied that any further contact would require me to provide a "$75-100" contribution for consultation and further contributions after that. During this time, I had also reached out to a psychiatrist-- Marc Feldman-- for more information about MBPS, who had informed me in a reply that he was the one who actually wrote the forward to Ms. Gregory's book Sickened. He said that he was "appalled" that Ms. Gregory would charge me for information and that he was approached by the Dr. Phil Show to appear with Ms. Gregory's mother Sandy. He said that if such findings about Ms. Gregory's characterizations are not true, he would rescind any support he previously had for her. I have not heard of any such episode airing, so I am curious as to what happened.

Claire Moore said...

Kimberley---This is the stuff THAT people don't realize, this woman is using people. She is not license's, she holds no diploma ( not even from HS) and she takes their money!! I would suggest you reach out to your network for Psychiatrist in your area that handles MBPS. Ms. Gregory isn't the person who will help you. She is not whom she wants people to believe she is. Most of the things in the book can't be verified. I can point you into different places that will help with no charge. I am sorry about your loss and issues, this is a painful disease especially untreated. Marc Feldman is a mouth piece whom has made his living on research but not really the issues of dealing with people in a day to day setting. He also, has cut ties with Ms. Gregory. I reached out to both these people with no help, Ms. Gregory was rude and not willing to answer questions about the book in a truthful manner or polite. I will help with simple questions, but I am no doctor or have a cure for you. I have research this issue with a passion and come across some good people who are making a difference with living children and love ones.

Anonymous said...

I must say...Julie Gregory may not be a very nice woman. But, the woman she described as her mother was my mother. This stranger who wrote a book about life growing up with other strangers somehow knew how to paint a picture of my childhood. So it's 5:28 a.m. and I just finished this book and I'm dumbfounded by what I just read because I truly believed I was the only one. I'm 38 and just now learning how to be healthy. You can't manufacture what Ms. Gregory wrote in her book. You just can't. I know without a doubt that she isn't making it up or embellishing. Life with this kind of mother is daily manipulation and dramatic abuse that no one would believe if we told them. I've forgiven my own mother and I love her for who and what she is, but from thousands of Miles away so she can't hurt me anymore. I find it interesting that on googling Julie's mother I find desperate attempts on her behalf to ask on free legal advise sites if she can see her daughter for lying about her and her comments on a random blog about her own victimhood. There's clearly something going on with her mother based on her own responses to the book and these people are so extremely manipulative that they absolutely get away with their abuse; repeatedly. Julie isn't lying. It's impossible for her to paint such a mirror image of this specific type of abuse so perfectly without having been through it because it's just too bizarre and complicated. As I said before, she may not be the best person in the world but there's no way she's lying because she described ever minute detail of my own mother's abuse and personality to perfection.

Claire Moore said...

Ok, I am sorry this happen to you. There's proof out there that some of the facts can't be found. Like you I believe some is true. Can I ask you one question, do you have children? Do you feel without counselling this couldn't be pass on to your child? Also, Ms.Gregory blamed her "ghost writer", for the fact that were tracked. I think that we could believe there are events in her book that were done to her. I believe there was abuse, but I am not 100%, all of it was true.

Jordyn Hope said...

It’s september 28, 2018
These comments are sickening. This is what is wrong with the world and this is why people don’t report things or speak up.
I went through a very similar situation and have lost so many people because they respond how all of you have.
We live in a world where nobody can seem to admit to the horrid things that happen, especially to children.
I believe her story, because I lived it as well.
This is how MBP works.
I’ve known others with similar experiences as well.

Tammy C said...

Claire Moore do you know this family? The book she stated that she did not have a high school diploma. You obviously have something against Julie. You have said some unkind things without proof or supporting documents. She may have said something about a donation so you would leave her alone. Julie is still being victimized, only now it is by people like you and the man who supposedly started this "investigation" Why would someone make up this kind of story? Let the skeletons out of the closet? And as far as Sandy Gregory goes she was able to manipulate doctors, DHS workers etc. She will always paint a picture of being a perfect mother. That is a part of MBPS. I will never understand why you find it necessary to go after Julie Gregory. It was and still is her journey, not yours.

Unknown said...

Exactly, no one wants to believe children...the truly innocent victims. But you cannot hide from Jehovah God and he will soon bring to justice those responsible and heal all those broken by them